Wednesday, March 20, 2013

A Rant About Feminism and Double Standards


Through five chapters, the feminist elements in Their Eyes are readily apparent. For example, the final sentence of chapter three: “Janie’s first dream was dead, so she became a woman.” (Hurston 24) I can appreciate this and other feminist elements, but I’m concerned it may end up being taken too far. This often occurs outside of literature, and it creates more problems than it solves.

 To be clear, I have nothing against feminism and I’m glad to have been born into a society that provides mostly equal opportunities for both genders. But, sometimes modern feminists take up a cause that’s more detrimental than beneficial in my opinion. For an extreme  example, and I’m about to delve into a topic that may offend some, but consider the popularly quoted “1 in 4 women will be raped before graduating college” statistic. Here’s an ABC News story discussing it.  While acknowledging that I am not a woman and couldn’t possibly understand the threat of rape the same way, and that there are countless unreported rapes not figured into those statistics, I find it irresponsible and potentially dangerous for feminists to promote awareness of those sorts of rape statistics.

Don’t think I’m a rape apologist—I have nothing but the utmost contempt for rapists. However, I find the statistic damaging because it’s not true. Included in that statistic are victims of “drunk sex.” Essentially, if a woman goes to a party and gets drunk and has sex with a man, and wakes up the next morning regretting it, she was, by law, raped. Of course, this introduces an incredibly unfair double standard, which is ironic considering that sort of thing is supposed to be what feminism is against. Certainly, no court will take a man’s claims seriously if he tries to accuse a woman of rape in the same circumstances, despite the fact that drunk men, well, let’s just say they can end up in some pretty awful predicaments in the morning as well.

While there can be circumstances in which drunk sex can border on rape, to consider every single instance a rape is wrong, in my opinion. Though there are plenty of unreported rapes understating the statistic, I think there are a lot more that were reported wrongly. Feminists sponsor polls that create these statistics, and I’ve personally seen how the polls trick women into saying they’ve been raped. For example, there will be a question asking “have you ever had sex while drunk” and every woman who checks “yes” gets added into a big bucket of people who answered affirmatively to other similar questions. Then, the total becomes the rape statistic, despite the fact that an unknown number of those included answered “no” to more direct questions like “have you been a victim of sexual assault.”

So, if rape statistics are overstated, the reason I don’t think feminists should continue misleading poll respondents (in my opinion) is obvious: it promotes unease and fear, puts a barrier between men and women that doesn’t belong. Women are conditioned to fear men and assume they’re all sexual predators, and that doesn’t create healthy relationships, whether romantic or platonic. There are a lot of repercussions of this attitude that are hard to directly trace to it, and perhaps that’s why it still happens, but I genuinely feel society would be better off if feminists eased up in this case. The feminist movement was originally about creating equality, yet modern feminists that attempt to promote this negative attitude toward men only divide us further. Besides, discussing how prevalent something is is a good way to make it so. Quite literally, I believe these feminist-sponsored rape statistics actually encourage rape more than inhibit it. That's why I take this issue so seriously--I truly believe some feminist movements actually hurt their own cause, and it pains me to see that.

Anyways, back to Their Eyes. As I said, I can appreciate the feminist elements in it. But, there has already been one instance in which it was taken perhaps a bit too far. The event I’m referring to is Janie’s leaving with Joe without divorcing her husband. He was not an ideal husband, probably, but he did provide for Janie. Feminists hate the marginalization of women, yet Logan was left high and dry without a second thought. Perhaps he resurfaces later in the story, but thus far no mention has been made of him since Janie left him. If their roles were reversed, I have a feeling feminists would bash the novel for marginalizing the poor married woman who was dumped at a moment’s notice, and condemn the male version of Janie for being the scum of the earth.  Sadly, I'm not sure how hyperbolic that is, even though it was meant to be.

In this case, though, there may be practical reasons why the event played out how it did. It may not have been realistic for a black woman to pursue a divorce from a white man, and perhaps she would have been punished for even mentioning it. Similarly, she may not have had any choice but to run off while Logan was gone. If she had tried to tell him before she left, it’s doubtful he would have just said “oh, okay, see ya!” In that sense, her infidelity is a message of empowerment, as Janie took her life into her own hands rather than settling for the hand dealt her. So, this may not be a case of feminism being pushed too far—but it is enough to keep me alert. I will be on the lookout for more double standards throughout the novel, as well as the positive feminism elements.

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